{"id":2184,"date":"2017-07-27T12:55:34","date_gmt":"2017-07-27T05:55:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=2184"},"modified":"2018-05-07T16:41:40","modified_gmt":"2018-05-07T09:41:40","slug":"vuot-qua-ap-luc-lay-chong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/vuot-qua-ap-luc-lay-chong\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng tu\u1ed5i 30"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng b\u00ed\u00a0k\u00edp th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u1ebf th\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5c n\u1ee3, m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n thanh l\u00fd trong nh\u00e0. \u00a0T\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1edb nh\u01b0 in c\u00e1i c\u00e1ch b\u1ed1 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1\u00a0\u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd. H\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft c\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7, mi\u1ec5n nhi\u1ec5m v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u n\u00f3i, tr\u00eau \u0111\u00f9a hay c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00e2m ch\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9.\u00a0M\u00e0\u00a0th\u1eadt ra, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ch\u1ee9! C\u0169ng \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i nh\u0103n l\u00ean m\u00e0 ng\u1ea1i ng\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 v\u00ec \u00a0th\u1ebf,\u00a0t\u00f4i \u00a0quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u00f3. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"ap-luc-lay-chong\"<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i<\/h3>\n

18 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, 22-23 tu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, 25- 27 tu\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea1o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi chung c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, n\u1ebfu ai c\u00f3 \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch c\u00e1i qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea1o an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea5y th\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb nh\u00ecn v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh m\u1eaft kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng ai c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9! C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 20, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00e0o kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng khi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ee9c tr\u1ebb \u0111ang c\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed9n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n mong ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi h\u1eb5ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1i th\u1ee9 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng qu\u00e1i qu\u1ef7 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0m ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng g\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3m \u0111i \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh<\/h3>\n

T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng<\/a> t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f3 l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u1eb3ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec\u00a0c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i. Th\u1eadt ra, s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea1o th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang,\u00a0\u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y\u00a0h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng con hay v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu khi n\u00e0o c\u00f2n \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111i t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

\"ap-luc-lay-chong\"<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7 hay nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u00ec b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng “B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u1ea1, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 con hay b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 khi mu\u1ed1n con l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 mong cho con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, y\u00ean \u1ea5m. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea5y, con ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn con h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ai r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u1edf t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Con ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ra ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0o v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd t\u1ed1t. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c c\u00f3 ai s\u1ed1ng thay cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u00e2u? Con ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 con s\u1ebd c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u00e3i c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng con \u0111ang bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c \u0111i t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y v\u1eabn tin \u1edf con nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i c\u00e1ch con \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.” Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 tin v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u t\u00f4i h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t \u00edt h\u01a1n \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng<\/a> l\u00ean c\u1ea3 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

T\u1ef1 tin b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau<\/h3>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng t\u1eebng lu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c mai m\u1ed1i t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u1eabn ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i rung \u0111\u1ed9ng. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edf h\u01a1n v\u1edbi h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 online<\/a> v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n hay ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 qua nh\u1eefng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 an to\u00e0n, uy t\u00edn<\/a>. Qua c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo \u0111\u00fang ti\u00eau ch\u00ed m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7t ra, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, tin c\u1eady, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng, rung \u0111\u1ed9ng. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a ch\u1ecdn ra m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 tin, t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a chuy\u1ec7n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a.<\/p>\n

\"ap-luc-lay-chong\"<\/p>\n

Y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n<\/h3>\n

D\u00f9 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd hay m\u00e3i v\u1ec1 sau, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang, r\u1eb1ng: \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb9p. T\u1ea1o h\u00f3a \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o cho ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00fang ta quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9c quy\u1ec1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh tu\u1ed9t m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

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