{"id":4086,"date":"2018-03-20T17:35:39","date_gmt":"2018-03-20T10:35:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=4086"},"modified":"2018-04-27T12:49:55","modified_gmt":"2018-04-27T05:49:55","slug":"philophobia-hoi-chung-so-yeu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/philophobia-hoi-chung-so-yeu\/","title":{"rendered":"Philophobia: H\u1ed9i Ch\u1ee9ng S\u1ee3 Y\u00eau"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00ec l\u1ea1i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1y m\u1ea5t?\u00a0\u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 Philophobia hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau<\/a>.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i tim. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 di\u1ec7u k\u1ef3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1t khao c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tuy\u00a0nhi\u00ean\u00a0v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 v\u00f4 c\u1edb, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i lo \u00e2u v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau (Philophobia).<\/p>\n

T\u1eeb Philophobia b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb t\u1eeb \u201cfilos\u201d trong ti\u1ebfng Hy L\u1ea1p, mang ngh\u0129a y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau hay c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u00e1nh \u0111i\u00a0c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i\u00a0li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi trong l\u00f2ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u01b0\u01a1m m\u1ea7m.\u00a0\u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng khi n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd d\u1eabn h\u1ecd h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y n\u00ean H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o, d\u00f9 nam hay n\u1eef<\/p><\/div>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau l\u00e0:<\/p>\n

G\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i\u00a0kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tinh th\u1ea7n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tinh th\u1ea7n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng\u00a0th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\u00a0trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u1edf qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u1eebng ly h\u00f4n; th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3\u00a0b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh s\u1ee3 y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng\u00a0n\u00e0y\u00a0c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf.\u00a0T\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u00a0c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1ea3m \u00e1nh v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u0103n ho\u00e1<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a “\u0111\u00f3ng” nh\u01b0 \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng, chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng b\u1edfi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i,… \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, \u00e2u lo v\u1edbi\u00a0nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\u00c2u lo phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, hay suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c d\u1ec5 bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i khi g\u1eb7p m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Anh\/ c\u00f4 \u1ea5y d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i sau 1 v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, t\u1ef1 kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3ng khung suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea5t k\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

Tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 y\u00eau<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Nh\u1eefng tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a\u00a0Philophobia\u00a0l\u00e0:<\/p>\n