{"id":5106,"date":"2018-07-26T16:46:08","date_gmt":"2018-07-26T09:46:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=5106"},"modified":"2018-08-22T10:01:57","modified_gmt":"2018-08-22T03:01:57","slug":"bat-mi-7-dau-hieu-ai-do-thich-ban-lam-roi-nhung-chua-dam-noi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/bat-mi-7-dau-hieu-ai-do-thich-ban-lam-roi-nhung-chua-dam-noi\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1eadt m\u00ed 7 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a d\u00e1m n\u00f3i"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang th\u00edch b\u1ea1n hay \u0111ang c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c ra kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn t\u01b0\u1edfng? T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh di\u1ec7u k\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn ta l\u00e2ng l\u00e2ng v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong m\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

V\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi y\u00eau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Lo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 khi y\u00eau c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec nh\u1ec9? Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i l\u00e2u, YmeetMe s\u1ebd b\u1eadt m\u00ed ngay 7 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111ang th\u00edch b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9<\/a>.<\/p>\n

1. Gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Theo m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u0103ng t\u1ea3i tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Journal of Evolutionary Psychology, khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5ng m\u00e0y r\u00e2u th\u00edch.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u1edf m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Albright, n\u1eef gi\u1edbi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00f3i gi\u1ecdng tr\u1ea7m v\u00e0 rung thanh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u00edch.<\/p>\n

2. Hormone trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Khi y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 n\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9 hormone, v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Trong khi nam gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 “nhu” h\u01a1n nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 t\u0103ng l\u00ean c\u1ee7a hormone estrogene, n\u1eef gi\u1edbi l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khao kh\u00e1t v\u1edbi n\u1eeda kia h\u01a1n d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a hormone testoterone.<\/p>\n

\"chu-dong-hen-ho-lam-quen\"<\/p>\n

3. \u0110\u1ed3ng t\u1eed gi\u00e3n to<\/strong><\/h4>\n

\u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ec7nh danh l\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, v\u00ec th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u cho ta bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111ang nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng: Khi y\u00eau, \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1eed (hay con ng\u01b0\u01a1i) c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u00e3n to h\u01a1n khi g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, v\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

4. \u0110\u1ecf m\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/strong><\/h4>\n

\u0110\u1ecf m\u1eb7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc “ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng” v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f2n ch\u1ec9 ra, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Theo gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd Ray Crozier, \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng b\u00ed m\u1eadt \u0111ang s\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eadt m\u00ed. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi n\u00f3 c\u0169ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m ph\u1ea7n \u00fd nh\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

5. X\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ed1t tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1ecfe h\u01a1n<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc California cho bi\u1ebft: nam gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u00e2u d\u00e0i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 x\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1eafc kh\u1ecfe h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta n\u00e2ng cao c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

6. T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng h\u01a1i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9 cortisol (hormone c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng stress) c\u0169ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ta d\u1ec5 lo \u00e2u, b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

May thay, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 di\u1ec5n ra v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u00edch m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n, s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd k\u1ebft th\u00fac sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"dau-hieu-ai-do-thich-ban-qua-co-the\"<\/p>\n

7. Ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 si\u00eau n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/h4>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh r\u1ea5t phi th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 t\u0103ng ti\u1ebft hormone oxytocin trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1edd c\u00f3 hormone n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00edt \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 hi sinh h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cao \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Theo Brightside<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00ec c\u00f2n ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb g\u00ec n\u1eefa, h\u00e3y v\u00e0o ngay YmeetMe, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1edbm t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda cho m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

\u0110\u0103ng k\u00fd mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed:\u00a0T\u1ea0I \u0110\u00c2Y<\/a><\/strong>! ( Ho\u1eb7c click n\u00fat \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1edbi)<\/p>\n

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