{"id":5273,"date":"2018-07-26T18:08:11","date_gmt":"2018-07-26T11:08:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=5273"},"modified":"2018-07-26T18:19:15","modified_gmt":"2018-07-26T11:19:15","slug":"khong-nen-lam-khi-cam-thay-co-don","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/khong-nen-lam-khi-cam-thay-co-don\/","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG \u0110I\u1ec0U KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN L\u00c0M KHI B\u1ea0N C\u1ea2M TH\u1ea4Y C\u00d4 \u0110\u01a0N"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng t\u1eebng c\u00f3 l\u00fac c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. N\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00f4i th\u00fac ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i th\u1eadt xa, n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng ai quen bi\u1ebft. N\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi\u1ebfn ta mu\u1ed1n bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. N\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi\u1ebfn ta x\u00f3t xa khi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 n\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ai s\u1ebb chia.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

N\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng mang \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ef1c \u0111oan, khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. T\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Theo nh\u01b0 John Cacioppo – m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ea7n kinh h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Chicago – c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t k\u00e9m. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh t\u1ec7 \u1edf m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t. B\u1ea1n gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng h\u00e0nh x\u1eed gi\u1ed1ng k\u1ebb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd k\u00ecm h\u00e3m b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i, giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. Khi \u0111\u00f3, k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c s\u1ebd m\u00e3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \"cam-thay-co-don-1\"<\/p>\n

    \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00ean nh\u1edb: t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. S\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ng\u1eebng h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Khi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. N\u00f3i \u201ct\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n\u201d su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. <\/span>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng n\u00f3i m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i h\u01a1n. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u1ed5n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1ed5n. V\u00ec sao? V\u00ec c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn.<\/span><\/p>\n

      N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t,…th\u00ec c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n t\u00e1ch xa kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

      \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00ean nh\u1edb: m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau. \u201cT\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n\u201d ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f2n suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Thay v\u00ec than th\u1edf m\u00ecnh c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, h\u00e3y t\u00edch c\u1ef1c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ng\u0103n m\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. \u0110\u1eebng t\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp m\u00ecnh<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3a m\u00ecnh tr\u00e1nh xa th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n hay t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi.\u00a0<\/span>C\u00f4 l\u1eadp ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Kho\u1ea3ng an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n co l\u1ea1i trong ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0, trong chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra kh\u1ecfi v\u00f2ng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/p>\n

        \"cam-thay-co-don-2\"<\/p>\n

        \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00ean nh\u1edb: b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi v\u1ecf \u1ed1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd h\u1ecd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u trong giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/span><\/p>\n

        H\u00e3y \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o, h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m. H\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n th\u1eed.\u00a0<\/span>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 may m\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong m\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd t\u1edbi.<\/span><\/p>\n

        Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m quen online nh\u01b0 YmeetMe c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. V\u1edbi \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin, v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

        Tham gia ngay c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng\u00a0YmeetMe \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1edbm g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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        T\u1ea3i \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng\u00a0YmeetMe<\/a>\u00a0mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed:\u00a0T\u1ea0I \u0110\u00c2Y<\/a><\/strong>! ( Ho\u1eb7c click n\u00fat \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi)<\/p>\n

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        Ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng t\u1eebng c\u00f3 l\u00fac c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. N\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00f4i th\u00fac ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i th\u1eadt xa, n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng ai quen bi\u1ebft. N\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi\u1ebfn ta mu\u1ed1n bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9….<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5282,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"amp_status":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[31,265,202],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5273"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5273"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5273\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5286,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5273\/revisions\/5286"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5282"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}