{"id":5332,"date":"2018-08-02T10:57:18","date_gmt":"2018-08-02T03:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=5332"},"modified":"2018-08-20T11:30:44","modified_gmt":"2018-08-20T04:30:44","slug":"suy-nghi-tieu-cuc-khien-ban-mai-co-don","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/suy-nghi-tieu-cuc-khien-ban-mai-co-don\/","title":{"rendered":"5 SUY NGH\u0128 TI\u00caU C\u1ef0C KHI\u1ebeN B\u1ea0N M\u00c3I C\u00d4 \u0110\u01a0N"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1edbi h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb Vi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu. B\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ecfi th\u0103m, tr\u00eau \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f4 \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00f4 t\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u00e3i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/a>.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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    M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1eeb t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p – T\u00f4i h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00ed sinh thi d\u1ef1 thi cu\u1ed9c thi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng – \u00a0y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c thi\u00a0m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn.\u00a0 B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m. Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hay \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi. Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1edbi v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o: \u0110\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \"suy-nghi-tieu-cuc-1\"<\/p>\n

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      N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i hot h\u01a1n, m\u1ea3nh mai h\u01a1n, th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n, \u00a0t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      B\u1ea5t an l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n sau c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? (Tr\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea5p t\u1ea5p) V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin l\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3, t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n k\u00e9m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o hay s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, h\u00e3y y\u00eau ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh – b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00ec c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Do \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang t\u1ef1 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh: b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 hoa c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u00fang. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c\u00a0 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng: n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u00f4n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00fa \u1ebfch tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec x\u1ea5u – \u00a0\u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1eabn di\u1ec5n ra. Nh\u1eefng ch\u00fa \u1ebfch s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, h\u1ecd d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng ho\u00e0i nghi. H\u00e3y y\u00ean t\u00e2m th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n b\u1edfi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u1edf ngo\u00e0i kia \u0111ang l\u01b0\u1edbt qua nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          T\u00f4i qu\u00e1 k\u00e9n ch\u1ecdn – t\u00f4i n\u00ean t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng xa v\u1eddi – nh\u01b0 anh \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n tr\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu v\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 – b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9n ch\u1ecdn. B\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. Ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian – \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u00ec m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm – kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai. V\u00e0 l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng: s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 l\u1eddi ti\u00ean tri ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n, tr\u1edf n\u00ean thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n, nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n. K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u, c\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u. Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y gi\u1eef t\u00e2m tr\u00ed lu\u00f4n r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

          \"suy-nghi-tieu-cuc-2\"<\/p>\n

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            T\u00f4i s\u1eafp h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 sinh h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con. Nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau – bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng? Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1m hoa k\u1ebft tr\u00e1i mu\u1ed9n, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ebd \u1ed5n. Ng\u00e0y nay, y h\u1ecdc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u\u00a0thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

            Lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin. YmeetMe ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn m\u1ed9t tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd mang t\u1edbi cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/span><\/p>\n

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