{"id":5517,"date":"2018-09-06T21:08:20","date_gmt":"2018-09-06T14:08:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=5517"},"modified":"2018-12-07T16:14:04","modified_gmt":"2018-12-07T09:14:04","slug":"cach-tu-choi-hen-ho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/cach-tu-choi-hen-ho\/","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG \u0110I\u1ec0U C\u1ea6N NH\u1eda KHI T\u1eea CH\u1ed0I H\u1eb8N H\u00d2"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1eeb h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra sau 3, 4 l\u1ea7n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 r\u1eb1ng: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Trong khi b\u1ea1n\u00a0c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u00a0r\u1eb1ng: m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong l\u1ea7n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 hai. Sau v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng may, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t t\u1ec7. Khi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean<a href=\"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/cach-tu-choi-hen-ho\/\"> t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2<\/a> ti\u1ebfp.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ngay khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 nh\u01b0ng thay v\u00ec ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng hai b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5522 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Anh-2.jpg\" alt=\"tu-choi-hen-ho-1\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i m\u1eb9o gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd khi hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2:<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m n\u1eefa<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0110\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o l\u00fd do anh \u1ea5y hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd l\u01b0u luy\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 sau v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 trong khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 b\u1edbt h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1eefa.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd y\u00eau c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f9ng ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n hy v\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 ti\u1ebfp. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0: \u201cEm l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, anh \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n r\u1ea5t vui khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p nhau. Ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng anh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5523 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Anh-3.jpg\" alt=\"tu-choi-hen-ho-2\" width=\"752\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<h4><strong>G\u1eedi tin nh\u1eafn n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi d\u00f9ng tin nh\u1eafn. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu hai b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n th\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i qu\u00e1 t\u1ec7. V\u1edbi tin nh\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. <\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>\u0110\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft hai b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng chung quan \u0111i\u1ec3m suy ngh\u0129<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edbm b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n trong khi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f4i khi x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng sau v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y s\u1ef1 tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c trong m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t l\u00fd do do t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5524 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Anh-1.jpg\" alt=\"tu-choi-hen-ho-3\" width=\"667\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<h4><strong>Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng chuy\u1ec3n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n. Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: \u201canh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 anh trai c\u1ee7a em\u201d, \u201cch\u00fang m\u00ecnh h\u00e3y l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t nh\u00e9\u201d,&#8230; Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e0ng k\u1ef3 qu\u1eb7c h\u01a1n. X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch xoa d\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00edch n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y th\u00ec l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch. 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( Ho\u1eb7c click n\u00fat \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5059\" style=\"width: 439px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gr2d7.app.goo.gl\/blog-content-new\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5059\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5059 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/\u0110\u0103ng-k\u00fd-button.png\" alt=\"tai-ung-dung-ymeetme\" width=\"429\" height=\"84\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5059\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u1ee8ng d\u1ee5ng YmeetMe<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1eeb h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra sau 3, 4 l\u1ea7n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 r\u1eb1ng: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Trong khi b\u1ea1n\u00a0c\u00f3&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"amp_status":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[113,66,290],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5517"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5517"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5517\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5526,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5517\/revisions\/5526"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}