{"id":555,"date":"2016-12-21T15:49:10","date_gmt":"2016-12-21T08:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=555"},"modified":"2016-12-22T10:09:15","modified_gmt":"2016-12-22T03:09:15","slug":"yeu-thuong-ai-la-phai-lam-cho-nguoi-ta-bot-kho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/yeu-thuong-ai-la-phai-lam-cho-nguoi-ta-bot-kho\/","title":{"rendered":"Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1edbt kh\u1ed5!"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb ng\u00e0n x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/a> lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ng\u00e0n n\u0103m sau v\u1eabn v\u1eady. Tuy nhi\u00ean, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac d\u00e0i l\u00e2u th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u. Ng\u1eabm nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/i><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/h2>\n

Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft\u201d. Trong \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt, t\u1eeb bi g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m, nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, b\u1ee9c x\u00fac ri\u00eang, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi. Trong c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, nh\u00e2n danh t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 nhau.<\/p>\n

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Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u mu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ai hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd \u201c\u0111\u00f3i\u201d th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u201c\u0111\u00f3i\u201d hi\u1ec3u. H\u1ecd th\u01a1 th\u1ea9n, lang thang trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh, th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh. G\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh, th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 may m\u1eafn l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ea3y n\u1edf, l\u1edbn l\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, \u201cc\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, ch\u1ecdn ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ee3 theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o. D\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00f3 gi\u00e0u \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh kh\u1ed5 su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hoa h\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u00f9 ng\u1ee5c. Ch\u1ecdn v\u1ee3, ch\u1ecdn ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m l\u1edbn. H\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn \u00e1n t\u00f9 chung th\u00e2n cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh \u2013 h\u00e3y nh\u1edb \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi tri k\u1ef7 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1ed1n y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 “t\u1eeb, bi, h\u1ec9, x\u1ea3”<\/h2>\n

Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1ed1n y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1: t\u1eeb, bi, h\u1ec9, x\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

\u201cT\u1eeb\u201d l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ebfn t\u1eb7ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfn t\u1eb7ng. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Y\u00eau m\u00e0 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 nhau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u1ed5, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ec7 lu\u1ef5, ch\u1ec9 mang t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u201cBi\u201d l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 ra kh\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1ed5, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0m cho th\u00eam kh\u1ed5, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. C\u00f2n g\u00ec cho nhau n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft s\u1ebb chia, bi\u1ebft xoa d\u1ecbu, l\u00e0m v\u01a1i b\u1edbt n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u201ct\u1eeb bi\u201d theo Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho nhau. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1edbt kh\u1ed5. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea, say \u0111\u1eafm nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. \u201cT\u1eeb bi\u201d trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 d\u01b0ng m\u00e0 c\u00f3. Ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc, ph\u1ea3i \u201ctu t\u1eadp\u201d. C\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ni\u1ec1m \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua, th\u00e1o g\u1ee1, b\u1edbt kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, th\u00eam h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

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\u201cH\u1ec9\u201d l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u vui. D\u1ea5u \u1ea5n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui. C\u00e0ng y\u00eau, c\u00e0ng vui, ni\u1ec1m vui l\u1edbn, c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Cu\u1ed9c nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

\u201cX\u1ea3\u201d l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t, k\u00ec th\u1ecb trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. M\u00ecnh y\u00eau ai, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a em\/ anh, em\/ anh r\u00e1ng ch\u1ecbu. Khi y\u00eau, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hai th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t n\u1eefa, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u1ed5 \u0111au kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1 n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, l\u00e0m l\u1edbn th\u00eam h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n: Berry Phan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb ng\u00e0n x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ng\u00e0n n\u0103m sau v\u1eabn v\u1eady. Tuy nhi\u00ean, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac d\u00e0i l\u00e2u th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u….<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":556,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"amp_status":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[31,27,30],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/555"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=555"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/555\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=555"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=555"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=555"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}