T\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau<\/a> c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady?<\/b><\/p>\n![\"tim-nguoi-ay-chua-bao-gio-de-dang\"](\"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/tumblr_inline_oht7tfPq6Z1ua4s38_500.jpg\")
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Nhanh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 logic c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. L\u00fd gi\u1ea3i cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Art Markman, gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 khoa th\u1ea7n kinh tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Texas cho bi\u1ebft: \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1edd vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. V\u1edbi c\u00e1c g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c ngh\u0129 nhanh t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong ch\u00fang ta. V\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ngh\u0129 nhanh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t ra nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00e1n n\u00f3 cho th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u logic nh\u1ea5t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n\u201d.<\/p>\n
C\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u00e1i l\u00e0m b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u201cN\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u th\u00f4i mi\u00ean\u201d. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Markman cho bi\u1ebft. \u201cC\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00e1 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i, sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ea7m ch\u1eadm ti\u1ebfn s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/p>\n
C\u00f2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n tham gia b\u00e0i th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng xem qua 36 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Arthur Aron nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n
1. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn ai \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng \u0111i \u0103n t\u1ed1i?<\/p>\n
2. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f4ng? B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n
3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd \u201cso\u00e1t\u201d l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea1i sao?<\/p>\n
4. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n
5. L\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n h\u00e1t cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nghe l\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o? V\u00e0 l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n h\u00e1t cho ai \u0111\u00f3 nghe l\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n
6. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn 90 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1eb7c c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, ho\u1eb7c tr\u00ed \u00f3c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi 30 trong su\u1ed1t 60 n\u0103m c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1i n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n
7. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 linh c\u1ea3m b\u00ed m\u1eadt n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd qua \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n
8. G\u1ecdi t\u00ean 3 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung.<\/p>\n
9. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nh\u1ea5t?<\/p>\n
10. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y, \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
11. Trong v\u00f2ng 4 ph\u00fat, h\u00e3y k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u chi ti\u1ebft c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n
12. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u00e0o s\u00e1ng mai v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
13. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 c\u1ea7u th\u1ee7y tinh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
14. C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m n\u00f3?<\/p>\n
15. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
16. B\u1ea1n tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n
17. K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t?<\/p>\n
18. K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0o kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n
19. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed9t n\u0103m b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebft b\u1ea5t th\u00ecnh l\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea1i sao?<\/p>\n
20. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n
21. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n
22. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb n\u0103m \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
23. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi?<\/p>\n
24. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n
25. M\u1ed7i b\u00ean l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u01b0a ra 3 suy ngh\u0129 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u201cch\u00fang t\u00f4i\u201d. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng \u1edf trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
26. Ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00e2u n\u00e0y: \u201cT\u00f4i \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb\u2026.\u201d<\/p>\n
27. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
28. N\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y th\u00edch \u1edf h\u1ecd: H\u00e3y th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba g\u1eb7p.<\/p>\n
29. Chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
30. L\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o? L\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n
31. N\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
32. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam t\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111em ra \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t?<\/p>\n
33. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m nay v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi ai, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd?<\/p>\n
34. Ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u01a1i ch\u1ee9a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3, b\u1ecb ch\u00e1y. Sau khi c\u1ee9u nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 th\u00fa nu\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng n\u00e0o, l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng trong an to\u00e0n. \u0110\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00ec? V\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n
35. Trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 ra \u0111i c\u1ee7a ai khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ea5t? T\u1ea1i sao?<\/p>\n
36. H\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 xin l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba n\u00eau ra.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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