{"id":702,"date":"2016-12-22T13:42:39","date_gmt":"2016-12-22T06:42:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=702"},"modified":"2016-12-23T14:34:04","modified_gmt":"2016-12-23T07:34:04","slug":"khi-phu-nu-noi-mot-dang-lam-mot-neo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/khi-phu-nu-noi-mot-dang-lam-mot-neo\/","title":{"rendered":"Khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfui. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo.<\/i><\/p>\n

1. “Gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t?”<\/b><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 mong \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 hai chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c xa nhau. Ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00e3 trai t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao ho\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng l\u1eafm l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1eed t\u1ebf, t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, phi\u00eau l\u01b0u trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u1ecb g\u1eafn m\u00e1c “trai \u0111\u1ec3u”.<\/p>\n

D\u1eabu v\u1eady, r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd “tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1” mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf song \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh, t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c ra, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1eady. H\u1ecd v\u1eabn mong mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, c\u00f2n h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

2. “Em kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3”<\/b><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u00edt nh\u1ea5t theo ba c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau:<\/p>\n

1- “Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, em ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u con trai \u0111\u00f3”.<\/p>\n

2- “Em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9 khi\u1ebfn em s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, mu\u1ed1n n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh”.<\/p>\n

3- “Em s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u1eefa”.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, 3 c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y t\u1ecf ra vui v\u1ebb, h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem c\u00f4 ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111ang ngh\u0129 g\u00ec, mong mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec (d\u1ef1a theo 1 trong 3 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00ean).<\/p>\n

H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng khi ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu d\u1ec5 ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

3. “Em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn anh, nh\u01b0ng em qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n…”<\/b><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i si\u00eau b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m, \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Th\u1ef1c ra \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i gi\u1ea3m n\u00f3i tr\u00e1nh m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb nh\u1eabn t\u00e2m n\u00ean ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u00f2ng vo nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean. Khi n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, th\u1ef1c t\u00e2m h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 coi ch\u00e0ng trai kia nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8.<\/p>\n

C\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3, d\u00f9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia h\u1ecd c\u0169ng quan t\u00e2m, c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00ean h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. B\u1eadn r\u1ed9n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u1edb h\u1ee3p l\u00fd m\u00e0 ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu hay s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi chia tay khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

4. “Em kh\u00f4ng sao”<\/b><\/p>\n

\"phu-nu-noi-mot-dang-lam-mot-neo\"<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00f3i c\u00e2u “Anh kh\u00f4ng sao”, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 “Anh s\u1ebd \u1ed5n” ho\u1eb7c “Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n v\u00e0i ph\u00fat, anh s\u1ebd \u1ed5n ngay th\u00f4i”. Nh\u01b0ng khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea5t l\u00ean c\u00e2u n\u00f3i “Em kh\u00f4ng sao”, n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Khi n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 \u00fd l\u00e0 “Anh h\u00e3y \u0111o\u00e1n xem em \u0111ang g\u1eb7p r\u1eafp r\u1ed1i v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec?”. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m n\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu ngh\u0129. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i, r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c h\u1ecfi han, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y “Em ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i xem em \u0111ang g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec, l\u00e0m sao anh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c…” th\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00e0ng th\u00eam gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu m\u1edf l\u1eddi. Mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i h\u1ecd \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 an \u1ee7i, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tinh t\u1ebf, kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, h\u1ebft l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c truy v\u1ea5n xem th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u00e2u n\u00f3i “Em \u1ed5n m\u00e0” l\u00e0 g\u00ec. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1edbt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

5. “Anh c\u1ee9 \u0111i \u0111i”<\/b><\/p>\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u00e0y t\u1ecf mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i ch\u01a1i game hay t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, anh ta c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi “Em kh\u00f4ng sao, anh c\u1ee9 \u0111i \u0111i”. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n trai b\u1ecf r\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 vui v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u00fa vui ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed7i khi n\u00f3i v\u1eady, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hay th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t bu\u1ed3n r\u1ea7u. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i “Anh c\u1ee9 \u0111i \u0111i” nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u1edf l\u1ea1i b\u00ean m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai v\u00f4 t\u00e2m ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu tinh t\u1ebf hi\u1ebfm khi nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 “cho ph\u00e9p” n\u00e0y n\u00ean h\u1ecd v\u1eabn th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i. \u0110\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i khi v\u1ec1, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i hay th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng lu\u00f4n “quy k\u1ebft” ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t. Mi\u1ec7ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd cho \u0111i nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i \u00e2m th\u1ea7m tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u00f4 t\u00e2m, kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh…<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 v\u00e0i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfui. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo. 1. “Gi\u00e1…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":711,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"amp_status":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[32,93,89,94,23],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/702"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=702"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/702\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}