{"id":937,"date":"2017-01-17T23:07:57","date_gmt":"2017-01-17T16:07:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/?p=937"},"modified":"2018-05-14T10:18:00","modified_gmt":"2018-05-14T03:18:00","slug":"dung-hoi-bao-gio-lay-chong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ymeet.me\/blog\/dung-hoi-bao-gio-lay-chong\/","title":{"rendered":"4 l\u00ed do kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ecfi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n, n\u0103m nay ngo\u00e0i 26 tu\u1ed5i. Cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ecb r\u1ee7 t\u00f4i \u0111i cafe nh\u00e2n d\u1ecbp cu\u1ed1i n\u0103m, m\u00e0 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee9 bu\u1ed3n thiu khi nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n bu\u1ed3n mang t\u00ean bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0– \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng khi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a l\u0169 l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i v\u1ed1n ch\u1eb3ng tin v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201c\u00e1p l\u1ef1c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n\u201d n\u00e0y l\u1eafm, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi nghe ch\u1ecb k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n. Ho\u00e1 ra n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu \u1edf quanh b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 l\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ean xe b\u00f4ng, th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea5y c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0103n nh\u1eb1m g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh – m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1t xu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 \u00edt \u201cch\u01b0a c\u00f3 g\u00ec” th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt cay \u0111\u1eafng, trong m\u1eaft gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng t\u1ed3n kho m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i n\u0103m n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u0169ng mang ra ki\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfm\u2026<\/p>\n

\"bao-gio-lay-chong-1\"<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u00fac ph\u00fac cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed7. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u0103n kho\u0103n: \u201ctr\u1eddi \u01a1i, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi v\u1eady ta?!\u201d – ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng tra t\u1ea5n nhau b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng<\/a> n\u1eefa?<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 rao gi\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng gi\u1edbi, ch\u00fang ta cho r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i tr\u1ecdng nam khinh n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 qua t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cch\u01b0\u1edbng tai gai m\u1eaft\u201d kia ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng cho th\u1ea5y \u201cb\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i” v\u1eabn \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, ch\u1ecb quen ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea7n 4 n\u0103m, v\u00e0 3 n\u0103m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y, c\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i d\u1ecbp t\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn xu\u00e2n v\u1ec1, c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd nh\u00e0 ch\u1ecb l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u c\u0169 r\u00edch: bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, bao gi\u1edd cho b\u00e1c \u0103n k\u1eb9o?, y\u00eau l\u00e2u th\u1ebf l\u1ea5y \u0111i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o n\u00f3 b\u1ecf… v\u00e0 10001 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i mang t\u00ednh s\u00e1t th\u01b0\u01a1ng cao kh\u00e1c. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ecb c\u00f2n mi\u1ec7t m\u00e0i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00e0 do c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai ch\u01b0a \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u2026, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khinh kh\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecb \u201cd\u1ed1t” v\u00ec \u201cv\u00e0i n\u0103m n\u1eefa m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi th\u00ec \u1ebf r\u1ed3i”, \u201cn\u00f3 b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ea5y”, khi\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ec9 c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1eeb cho xong chuy\u1ec7n. Ch\u1ecb b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i, t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ed3ng con l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef? Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n \u0111am m\u00ea, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u?<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef sinh ra v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, m\u1edbi sang tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f4i m\u01b0\u01a1i th\u00ec b\u1ecb h\u1ecfi bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb h\u1ecfi bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 con… C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u00ed do khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00e1n ng\u00e1n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cm\u1eafc m\u1ec7t” n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

1. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111o\u1ea1t b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c \u201cc\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng\u201d hay \u201ckh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng”.<\/strong><\/h4>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cn\u1ea5u \u0103n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0m sao l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed3ng”, \u201cl\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 sau ch\u1ed3ng n\u00f3 \u0111u\u1ed5i ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0”, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u201ch\u1ecdc ng\u00e0nh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e2u” (?!)
\nT\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o \u201cc\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng” \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n, ngang h\u00e0ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn hay b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef? Th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0o r\u1ed3i c\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u201cph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u01a1n nhau \u1edf t\u1ea5m ch\u1ed3ng”?
\nPh\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u01a1n nhau \u1edf s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, \u1edf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, \u1edf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u201ct\u1ea5m ch\u1ed3ng” \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a, \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh.<\/p>\n

2. M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u1ea5y c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 qu\u00e9t s\u1ea1ch g\u1ea7n h\u1ebft n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef!<\/strong><\/h4>\n

T\u00f4i nh\u1edb g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y trong m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai 29 tu\u1ed5i \u1edf Ngh\u1ec7 An \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f9ng h\u1ed3n tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 “ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u0103m con, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m” \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n g\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb em \u201cth\u00e0 \u1ebf c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 anh!\u201d. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

\"bao-gio-lay-chong-2\"
\nTh\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 quan ni\u1ec7m, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n t\u1ec1 gia n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3, n\u1eef c\u00f4ng gia ch\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ea3, c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i v\u00f9i s\u00f4ng l\u1ea5p b\u1ec3, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf, t\u1ec1 gia tr\u1ecb qu\u1ed1c. Nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi khi thu h\u1eb9p th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u1ecfn v\u1eb9n trong b\u1ed1n b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng sinh con, v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nghi\u1ec5m nhi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea1o hi\u1ebfu v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.
\nNh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd khi ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh chung mang nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7 \u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u201cph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh”. B\u1ed1n t\u1eeb \u1ea5y khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, trong m\u1eaft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 bao nhi\u00eau th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111i h\u1ebft.
\nN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng, m\u00ecnh \u0111ang d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n k\u00e9n ch\u1ecdn, \u00edch k\u1ef7, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu(?!). D\u1ea7n d\u00e0, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp v\u00e0o h\u00e0ng \u201c\u1ebf”, th\u00e0nh \u201ct\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ea5u” m\u00e0 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 r\u0103n d\u1ea1y con g\u00e1i h\u1ecd, th\u00e0nh m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng t\u1ed3n c\u1ea7n thanh l\u00fd g\u1ea5p. Bao nhi\u00eau gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u201cch\u01b0a l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed3ng”?<\/p>\n

3. Can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/h4>\n

\"bao-gio-lay-chong-3\"<\/p>\n

\u201cB\u1eb1ng tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \/ b\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 hai con r\u1ed3i!\u201d
\n\u201cTu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ed3i.”
\n\u201cQu\u00e1 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d
\n\u201cL\u1ea5y \u0111i xong n\u0103m sau l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p tu\u1ed5i l\u1eafm \u0111\u1ea5y!\u201d
\n\u2026
\nV\u00e0 h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 ph\u1ea1t k\u00e9o theo c\u00e1i chu\u1ed7i bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng. Th\u1eadt ra, \u0111\u1eebng cho r\u1eb1ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi x\u00e3 giao, \u201cl\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u0103ng”. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c v\u00f4 duy\u00ean!
\nPh\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ee7 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo l\u1eafng cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n! H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, nh\u1eefng \u201cl\u1eddi khuy\u00ean\u201d \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

4. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/strong><\/h4>\n

C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 89% s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng<\/strong> kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang h\u1ecfi. C\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a? T\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u01b0a? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf g\u00ec t\u1eeb ph\u00eda gia \u0111\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y y\u00eau c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con trai kh\u00f4ng?…
\nV\u1eady \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i ch\u01b0a l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1eaft s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00ed do ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 xin \u0111\u1eebng h\u1ecfi th\u00eam. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m” \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u00e2u s\u1eafc th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb t\u1ecdc m\u1ea1ch v\u00f4 duy\u00ean.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ec3 thay cho nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m kh\u00f3 n\u00f3i, xin tr\u00edch l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t r\u1ea5t \u201ch\u1ee3p th\u1eddi” c\u1ee7a B\u00edch Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng:<\/p>\n

N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee3t tho\u00e1ng v\u1ee5t t\u1eaft tr\u00ean m\u00e1 h\u1ed3ng, em n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, em ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n \u1edf m\u00e3i b\u00ean m\u1eb9 cha.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng ai h\u1ecfi em ch\u01b0a l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1eebng ai h\u1ecfi em ch\u01b0a l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, m\u00f9a xu\u00e2n n\u00e0y em ch\u01b0a l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, em v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng….<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n